Solutions for Emotional Well-Being and Growth
Show up. Speak up. Level up. Strong, not silent.
Virtual and Office Based Counseling Available.
No fluff. Just tools, strategy, and change.



Peak performance starts with you.
Victoria Byler (She/Her)
M.S.Ed., LPCC, C-DBT, CGP & EMDR Certified
Welcome to Revive Counseling LLC
I’m Victoria Byler, and with nearly a decade of experience working with men, I know the weight of trying to do it all. Whether it’s feeling overwhelmed by stress, struggling to trust yourself, or losing direction in your life, you’re not alone. Tension, low motivation, issues with concentration, and the constant push to put everyone else’s needs first—these are things I help men break free from every day.
Together, we’ll work through what’s keeping you stuck, so you can start showing up as your best self. I’ll help you take control, find direction, and unlock the confidence you need to live authentically and improve your relationships.
If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start building the life you want, let’s talk.
Listen to A Quest for Well-Being's Podcast with Guest Victoria Byler
Explore a journey towards holistic wellness with a featured podcast from Victoria Byler! We explore the transformative power of wellness, the profound impact of EMDR therapy, and the path to healing from trauma. Join us as we discuss resilience, empowerment, and joy. Also, check out the link to our blog.
About my specialties
Find Balance & Well-Being with My Personalized Therapies
Ever heard of EMDR? It stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing.
EMDR—no talking, just action. If you’re feeling stuck, this therapy helps you break through without rehashing everything. Focus on the issue, get moving, and clear the mental block. Ready to make real change—fast?
Stuck in your head? Get it out. Expressive arts let you release stress without saying a word. No skill required—just a powerful way to clear the mental clutter and move forward.
It’s about tuning into your body to unlock what’s really going on inside. Stop talking in circles—start using your body to break through stress and emotional blocks.
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FAQs
Do you accept insurance?
In the best interest of my clients’ treatment process, I do not currently accept insurance, however some clients may be able to obtain reimbursement for part of their treatment costs. I am happy to give you more information about this so you can decide what’s best for you. Please contact me for more information.
How can therapy help overcome traumas and emotional problems?
Traumas and emotional problems can cast a long shadow, impacting your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Therapy offers a compassionate hand to break through these shadows. Imagine a safe, confidential space where you can discuss your struggles openly and honestly, free from judgment. This is the foundation therapy provides, allowing you to explore difficult emotions and memories related to trauma in a healthy way. Revive empowers you with concrete tools and strategies. Your therapist can help you understand how past experiences shape your present, offering techniques like EMDR to process trauma and move forward. Additionally, you’ll learn healthy coping mechanisms for managing difficult emotions like anxiety, depression, and anger. This equips you to tackle challenges head-on, fostering resilience and a sense of control over your life. Remember, therapy is a journey, not a destination. With ongoing support and guidance, you can heal, build stronger relationships, and ultimately, overcome the obstacles that stand in your way. So, if you’re struggling, know that help is available and you don’t have to face these challenges alone.
What is the Ideal therapy session length and frequency?
Unfortunately, there’s no “ideal” therapy length or frequency that fits everyone. It depends on various factors like the specific issue, severity, individual progress, and personal goals. Typically, therapy starts weekly and adjusts based on needs. Short-term therapy (10-20 sessions) might address specific issues. Complex challenges or deep-seated issues may require longer-term therapy (months or even years).
What types of therapy do you do?
Person-centered, EMDR, Expressive Arts, Grief therapies. I meet you where you are and what you want out of your personal goals. I think of these modalities like ingredients; each individual receives their personal entree.
Why Out of Network?
I am an out-of-network provider (OONP), which allows me to provide quality care and specialties for you. My rates are carefully chosen to maintain certifications, continue education for up-to-date care services, reduce burnout, maintain overhead costs, and access fair living wages.
How long does a therapy session last?
Typically, each session is a 55-minute duration.
How long will I be in therapy?
Therapy is an investment—most importantly, an investment in yourself. Variables that impact the duration of services are based on the severity of symptoms, goals, and motivation levels.
Why the name 'Revive'?
Revive was created with healing in mind. When we experience trauma we can feel disconnected from ourselves and our world. My hope is to provide guidance, tools, and support in order for you to feel safe and restored.